How often should I see my personal trainer?

Let’s start here: The more sessions per week you spend with a trainer, the better your results. In less time. Think of your trainer as being somewhere on a spectrum between a professor and a tutor. A professor delivers a lesson, then washes their hands. It’s then on you to review, parse, apply, and repeat to commit to memory. A tutor, on the other hand, reviews with you, explains, enlightens, and works to ensure you’re understanding and correctly applying what the professor taught. The degree

Let’s start here: The more sessions per week you spend with a trainer, the better your results. In less time.

Think of your trainer as being somewhere on a spectrum between a professor and a tutor. A professor delivers a lesson, then washes their hands. It’s then on you to review, parse, apply, and repeat to commit to memory. A tutor, on the other hand, reviews with you, explains, enlightens, and works to ensure you’re understanding and correctly applying what the professor taught.

The degree to which your trainer is more one than the other depends on the frequency with which you see each other. If you only meet once a week, the trainer will probably aim to be closer to the professor side. Otherwise, you’d spend weeks or even months going over the same material. This scenario requires extra dedication and focus on your part.

On the other hand, if you see each other every day, your trainer can feel better about gravitating more toward the tutor side. In this scenario, every meeting enriches your aptitude, command, and confidence; every meeting hones your muscle memory and programs your mental maps closer toward peak effective motor control; the more frequent repetitions of movement patterns helps cement them faster with less time spent on re-acquiring or correcting them and less downtime spent without progress.

Expect to have better results in less time with better long term outcomes when you see a trainer for more sessions more frequently

Another consideration is injury risk. For any given intensity level, risk is typically lower while you’re executing with your trainer compared to going solo.

Some clients can also start off over-motivated — it’s much easier to overtrain when you’re not yet fit or conditioned for training. So, trainers help not just by showing you proper form and safety, but also by keeping you from going too hard to start. Not to say beginners should hold back. It’s perfectly fine to train even every single day when first starting (if that supports your aims), but only your coach can ensure your intensity is correctly modulated for that approach.

Altogether, you can expect to have better results in less time with better long term outcomes when you see a trainer for more sessions more frequently.

But money ain’t cheap…

Budgets are a thing. It’s true. For a lot of folk, it can seem hard to justify five days a week of coaching. Even three a week is a reach for many.

The good news is you can certainly do very well with fewer!

A brief detour here: perhaps you’re wondering why training seems pricey.

First, it’s worth pointing out that an hour of quality training is, by itself, not all that expensive compared to other highly skilled or personal services, especially in the world of health care.

Trainers do offer a highly-skilled service and must stay alert and focused at all times. Plus, it’s an industry rife with income depletion. Downtime between clients… time spent on clients off the clock… travel time… gym costs… last minute scheduling changes and no-shows… in fact, even clients who simply have a hard time committing to their programs costs a trainer time.

It’s also a career that’s extremely demanding and physically exhausting. Trainers themselves must keep a highly active lifestyle, including ample daily exercise, always pushing their own limits. They also have to engage in perpetual research and education for professional development.

With that said, here’s a fact you probably haven’t heard: You don’t want a trainer who’s booked 40+ hours a week.

You don’t want a trainer who’s booked 40+ hours a week

Surprised?

Consider this. If you’re the last client in an eight-hour day, you’re not going to get the same level of trainer focus and presence that the first six or seven clients did. Somewhere past five to six hours of training, quality inexorably starts to decline. It could be a dip in the trainer’s patience level or focus on fine details of your muscle engagement.

Then, a trainer’s job doesn’t begin and end in the gym. There’s almost as much off-the-clock time, needing specialized attention for each client, as in-gym time.

Taken together, that means even the first clients who showed up each morning would end up with less than a trainer’s best if that trainer is over-extended day after day.

Ultimately, it’s counterproductive for trainers to clock overtime. Clients for any such trainers are losing out on quality training. Likewise, any trainer who has to hold a second job just to get by is unlikely to remain a trainer for long. Tragically, it’s also a trainer you probably don’t want even if they’d be excellent at their job if they could sustain it on its own.

Those are a few reasons quality coaching can’t be offered at below the market rate for skilled health services. To be accurate: most people, when they only look at coaching compensation in hourly increments, feel the rates are not high at all.

The real reason personal training can seem expensive is that while other skilled services are generally engaged on occasion or once in a blue moon, hiring adequate personal training requires committing to a long chain of many sessions on a regular basis. It adds up.

So here we are: hiring a trainer, by necessity, is not cheap.

In fact, it’s an investment.

Regardless, this leads us to the question on many clients’ minds when considering professional health and fitness coaching: “what is the least investment in training I can get away with and still get my money’s worth?”

“What is the least investment in training I can get away with and still get my money’s worth?”

The basic parameters to consider

Now another fact: Your success in the gym depends very much on your commitment, over the short AND long terms. It also depends on the total time you spend training each week.

There is no way around this fact.

Fortunately, you don’t have to be with a trainer every minute you’re in the gym. Trainers can assign you homework — with a small catch.

When you first start training, unless you demonstrate adequate experience and fitness, don’t expect your trainer to let you go solo with the same intensity or level of technique you would get in-person. In fact, if you can only afford one training session a week, you should assume your first four to eight weeks are going to be slowly introducing you to training at each meeting — before you are ever even given your first major homework assignment. Expect early homework to be cardio or basic movement and balance patterns. Even these are likely to be very simple at first if you’re not sufficiently fit for your trainer to feel comfortable assigning more demanding exercises.

How long homework assignments of this nature must go on is ultimately going to be determined by your ground-floor abilities plus your time commitment going forward.

One other factor that can play a role is whether you have a gym to work out in when solo. If not —if the only time you are in a gym is when you’re with your trainer— then you’ll likely need to book as many sessions as you need to exercise per week. You and your trainer might settle on programming that allows you to do work at home instead of at a gym. And cardio is frequently an activity that can be done without a gym. But some types of results require a certain amount of time in a gym. If it costs you the same to see your trainer as often as you need gym access as it would to see your trainer less often AND buy a separate membership, then it clearly makes no sense to buy a separate membership! In these cases, your answer is clear: see your trainer as often as you need to workout to succeed at your goals.


General guidelines

With all that said, a good rule of thumb is you should see your trainer once a week at a minimum. Less than that makes it exceedingly hard for you to retain and practice what you get exposed to at each meeting. It also makes it much harder on your trainer to keep track of your progress, which makes relapses of fitness and other primary conditioning more likely.

For a peak return on investment, most clients should go for three sessions a week. More than three sessions definitely yields a higher return, but not as proportionately high in comparison to the jump going from one to three.

(An exception is if you’re an athlete who’s fit to start with. You’ll actually benefit the most from five to six sessions per week for at least your first one to two months. That’s because you are coming to your trainer ready and able to work hard; the sooner and more frequently you meet and practice together, the better you will progress. At this level, time spent waiting is time spent going backward.)

Most trainees who have been with their trainer for at least nine to twelve months could likely do fine with one-a-week sessions. After close to a year, the benefit you get from a trainer is going to come down to a balance between your relationship with them along with the unique value they provide, versus your ability to afford them. There are other factors as well; unique circumstances. But for an average young-adult or middle-age client, a year of several times-a-week quality instruction is enough to set them up for ongoing success even with just one session per week from then on.

You may be thinking: “can’t I just go 100% solo after some time?” Indeed, you can! This does depend on your style (more on that below) and your personal aims. But let’s say you’re just seeking general fitness. After a year of training, you could certainly keep right on going for life doing the same exercises and programs you learned and fare quite well. You could probably learn a lot of new exercises on your own over time too. So, do you still need one session a week? That’s an utterly individual decision. It largely depends on your own innate abilities and interests versus your long term goals. Safe to say it goes beyond the scope of this piece to elaborate any further than what I’ve laid out in these two paragraphs.


Consider your personal style

Optimal frequency also comes down to your style as a trainee.

Some clients prefer not to think about exercise. They are too focused on other things. They depend on their trainer to tell them exactly what to do and how to do it for every exercise of every workout. Or perhaps they just aren’t a type to intuit exercise. Meanwhile, other clients are like sponges and seek to learn everything they can; to become as self-sufficient as possible. The latter type, as long as they are all-in with their training during the time spent with their coach, are the best equipped to succeed with more independent work.

Sometimes clients start out as one type and end up as the other. They may start wanting to learn everything but eventually find it too burdensome and not really of interest. Or they may start out not wanting to be mindful but eventually acquire an aptitude and love for physical movement.

Some clients prefer not to think about exercise … other clients are like sponges and seek to learn everything they can

Either way, before starting, it’s a good idea to develop a healthy and realistic level of self-awareness. Know where on that spectrum you’re at… now.

Already super fit, athletic, and motivated? Frequent sessions with your trainer at least to start is likely your best bet. Decently fit and capable, well motivated, but needing guidance? Hybrid sessions with homework assignments can work. At the opposite end of the fitness and motivation spectrum? You’re better off loading up as much time with your trainer as you can.

Whatever you do, don’t settle for a cheap trainer! Definitely read my guide on choosing a personal trainer! Do the best you can with the right trainer for you. Cheaping out is guaranteed to be the wrong move. You’re better off paying for one session a week with a great trainer than five with a cheap one.


What about remote training?

The most affordable training option is remote programming. This is obviously a possibility for anyone considering training. It might be tricky finding a quality trainer when you can’t spend time with them in person. Even the best trainers are going to be challenged by the disconnected and asynchronous nature of remote training.

A lot more accountability falls on you when using this option. So, it’s incumbent on you, the trainee, to suss out the quality level and appropriateness to your style and personality of prospective trainers when deciding to go the remote trainee route.

With that in mind, assuming you are happy with a trainer and their remote training offerings, you’re going to need patience. You’ll need to start slow and be careful to compare your form against the instruction you are given. You’ll want to give your trainer frequent feedback on wherever you felt unsure or unstable.

You’ll definitely want to use light weights. And you’ll absolutely want to tell your trainer any time you simply can’t perform an exercise as instructed. Keep in mind, too, you may end up having to pay extra for special video sessions for targeted coaching.

Alternatively, consider enrolling in a remote program offered by a trainer who is local to you. This way, you can see them from time to time, as you are able to afford it. This is a creative way to save money while still locking in quality progress. It might not be the most ideal approach, and most trainers charge a higher rate for one-off appointments, but maybe it’s the only way a quality trainer is in reach for you.

So if you go this route, be patient — it will take time. And pay lots of attention and ask lots of questions those times you do meet with your trainer. Your aims as a remote trainee when seeing your trainer are to ask, review, and learn.

Even with this approach, if you see your trainer less than once every two or three weeks, you’re not going to get as much benefit from the in-person sessions compared to once a week. You really have to be self-driven and have a certain aptitude for picking up exercise form.


In summary:

The bottom line is that hiring a trainer while under a tight budget is possible if you are patient, persistent, and you have a good trainer. Never forget you are getting into this —hopefully— for the rest of your life. Sure, those seeking a short-term fix have to throw a lot of time and money at it in one big burst (and also need realistic expectations; a couch potato doesn’t magically become an underwear model in half a year). But my hope, with most persons, is that they are in it for the long haul. That means that if you reach your first goal in twelve months instead of four… it’s ok. That’s not a big deal in the grand scheme. As long as you stick with it week after week, month after month, year after year… then a few years down the road from now, you won’t care that you only saw your trainer once a week instead of five or that it took longer to hit your early goals. You still got there.


Key takeaways

  1. The more often you see your trainer, the sooner you’ll get better results and generally be safer from injury risks which would otherwise set you back greatly. Five times a week is a general maximum (rarely, six or seven might be better).
  2. Three times a week is an “optimized minimum” and a good rule of thumb for most clients.
  3. In the absence of a specialized strategy and situation, once per week is the minimum at which you can expect an encouraging return on your investment — less could be wasteful.
  4. The better your fitness, kinetic aptitude, and self-training skill level, the easier it is to get by on fewer training sessions. The less foundation you have though, the more necessary it is to spend extra time building one with your trainer before you can expect measurable progress.
  5. The higher your bar for near-term training results, the more frequent sessions you need, especially at first. Over time, you and your trainer might figure out optimal ways for you to make the same kind of progress more independently.
  6. If money is tight, consider cycling your training by starting out at the highest number of sessions you can afford for a month or two, then paring it back for a while, and then occasionally increasing the session frequency again.
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